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Author: chinchilla Subject: haulting masturbation
tpathi1
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posted on 03-08-2012 at 13:13 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
haulting masturbation

Okay here is the deal I am a 27 yr old virgin. I have no idea how let myself get to this point. Growing up I have always been shy and not too talkative around girls; in fact I would always get really nervous and just completely shut down and keep my conversations to a minimum with girls and women. I was always accepted by my peers in school church and sports teams that I was a part of and although not the popular kid I always felt that I was respected by all of my peers. Anyways fastforward to college; still I was not able to express myself properly to girls and my whole experience there has been just that I guess an experience or lack there of. Now I have been working for a couple years in a professional setting and I look at myself and I do not see an ugly person. When I walk around town I smile and people smile back I would say that I have a friendly face. It is difficult to approach women for me but I have done so a few times, but any time I think this might be the one or the time the universe works in my favor something happens to completely alter the outcome. Like most men I started jerkin it to rid myself ofo the tension and frustration. For the past year or so I tried to minimize the masturbation bc I felt like if I don't masturbate my sex drive will naturally increase and nature will make me get out there and intro myself to people. I did seem to jerk it a lot since 16 when I discovered self pleasure. The problem is that instead of actively looking my frustratuons are forcing me to communicate my issues online. For lent I gave up masturbation I want to make it up to 100 days, I am at the point thouguh right now where this is getting a little impracical or depressing. How can I get over this slump? My mind is saying not to wait until marriage for sex but my mind is also telling me that your case will not go smoothly with the women you want to have in your life. So its like I don't know what to do at this point. Ahh frustration is a mofo sometimes!
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confinedbeing
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posted on 03-10-2012 at 01:24 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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Same shyt with me bro. I have this chick at work, shes a hot mom, that has just straight up asked me to have sex with her. Probably thinking how could it get any easier huh? Its fn scary. I cant function around women unless im blasted out of my mind. I personally have no idea what to tell you but would like to see what some ppl think. Im afraid that im going to perform terribly and then shes going to regret it. however for the time being its nice having someone wanting my junk so bad. Im def not leading her on im just honestly afraid. lol it is a mofo.
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posted on 05-11-2012 at 12:00 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
ways to stop masturbating

I stopped masturbating for 3 months once and it made me feel better. Taking 2-4 ibuprofen or a cold bath can help a lot if you feel the urge to.
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