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Author: AdviceMan Subject: A previous relationship
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posted on 08-27-2004 at 09:40 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
A previous relationship

May be it's not a right place for my question, but any way I really need help!!!

Ok here's my question, any answer will be appreciated.

My bf and I have been together for 3 yrs. I've never had a previous relationship... and... I don't know if he had any!! we've never talked about it. i don't know how to ask him that. I think we should know this things about each other.
i mean, one part of me thinks,"doesn't matter what could have happened before, he's with you now" but other part of me is dying thinking that he may be comparing me, sometimes i feel jealous that he may had other girls in the past (i've never had sex, and i don't know if he did - we have a tacit agreement of chastity between us).
and other thing: we really love each other and we may very well end up getting married in a few years, but i can't stop thinking "i REALLY love him, he's really great, but what if there's someone better than him" i have no comparison point since he's my first love.

help me please!!!!
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posted on 08-27-2004 at 21:52 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
You shouldn't worry too much

If you really do love him then it shouldn't worry. If you are curious then just ask him. If you have a great relationship then you should also be very open with each other. Just ask him. If you have doubts then try to clear it up.
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posted on 08-29-2004 at 02:24 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Bat girl. Ask your boyfriend if he has had any previous relationships.
Tell him how it is secretly affecting you and how hw can help easy your insecurities.
Tell him how much you love him and how nice it would be to be married to him but first you have to get this one thing off of your chest. I mean breast. (little joke there) ha! ha!:cool:
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